Hurting? Learn how to break free from their spell

My Breakup Space
My Breakup Blog
My Big Breakup
The Zodiac Man
STOP a Breakup
Breakups Magazine
Gay/Lesbian Advice

OUR MEMBERS' BOOK RECOMMENDATIONS

The Girls' Guide to Surviving a Break-Up The essential female companion from the first moment he walks out of your life! The Girls' Guide to Surviving a Break-Up offers step-by-step advice for getting over him.

The Hell with Love: Poems to Mend a Broken Heart Finally a book of poetry that describes every emotion you go through when you are in love and heart broken. This book is amazing and wonderful. I recommend it to who ever loves poetry and ever had a broken heart.

He's Just Not That Into You (The Newly Expanded Edition): The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys It seems like everywhere you turn the phrase "He's just not that into you" is being thrown around. And for good reason! The ladies are finally done waiting by the phone - hey, why sit at home for the phone to ring when it's so obvious that he's just not that into you?

Women Men Love, Women Men Leave: What Makes Men Want to Commit? In easy psychological terms, this book helps a woman understand why a man may react negatively to her even when she feels she's doing everything right for a relationship. With different female personalities portrayed, the reader will find themselves fitting one or more of the profiles.

Breakup Community
How To Be Irresistible
Save My Relationship
Perfect Love Letters
Man Magnet
Broken Heart Repair
Get Your Ex Back
Why Men Cheat Forum
Stop His Commitmentphobia

When Love Ends
By Tigress Luv, The Break Up Guru

Unless you are one of those fortunate few who met their soulmate in grade school, married right out of high school, and spent the next 60 years in wedded bliss you are going to go through what millions before you have gone through, and what millions after you will go through - a broken heart. The pain experienced during a breakup is as individual as the millions of people who go through it. While some simply shake the dust off and get right back into the dating game, others are left so devastated that they never date again, spending the rest of their life in bitter solitude. Why the difference? Could some of us just be stronger than others? Do some people love harder than others? Are some loves more connected than others? For most of us who experience a breakup a normal grieving period will occur: Denial and Isolation, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, and finally Acceptance.

But for some, the grief and devastation are so severe that they end up hospitalized, and even suicidal. Others remain either bitter or so afraid of getting hurt that they never date again, closing off their hearts to just about everyone. Yet, some don't even grieve at all, subconsciously choosing to simply transfer their feelings for one person immediately onto that of another person in what is called a rebound relationship. Why the variation? Well, a lot of it has to do with our loving style. There are many loving styles ranging from the very healthy, to the desperately needy. While one person may love another in a supportive and healthy way, another person may cling onto their mate simply as a way to fix what they imagine to be wrong with themselves. They use their partner as a method of dealing with their own imagined inadequacies or feelings of unworthiness - feeling good only as long as they are in the relationship.

How to Win Back Their Attraction! ATTRACTION IS EVERYTHING! Here's what to do when you think they are no longer attracted to you 24 FREE Breakup & Relationship eBooks Join our community and get our ebooks for free! Learn how to stop your breakup and win your ex back for free! Broken Heart? Find out how to mend your brokenheart caused by a broken relationship. Advice from The Breakup Guru. Did She Dump You? Are you a nice guy and still got dumped for a jerk? Learn how to be the bastard women want, and never get dumped again! Win Your Ex Back! Find out how to win your ex back and keep them hopelessly attached to you forever more!

Others simply like the 'high' of being in love. This high becomes addictive to them and they hop from one relationship instantly into another - often times head-over-heels in love by the second date. They recklessly seek 'love' much as an addict will seek a 'fix', and are often so in need of being in love that they imagine their partners to have all the qualities they are looking for in a mate - whether their partners actually possess these qualities or not. Still others simply surrender themselves into their relationships quickly losing themselves and their own sense of individuality, becoming 'the relationship'. Should the relationship end, then shall they, too. A healthy view of oneself, one's partner, and one's relationship is essential to withstanding the ups, and downs, in our eternal search for that special someone to share our lives with.

by Tigress Luv / Tigress Luv, The Breakup Guru, is the author of How to Get Over a Breakup, an instantly available online webBook or downloadable ebook and website designed to help you understand and heal from a broken heart, and How to STOP a Breakup, an instantly available webBook or downloadable ebook and website designed to help you STOP or reverse your breakup and get your ex back. Both are available on this site and are free when you join our community. Read Dream Chasers: The CP Addiction (Falling in Love and Dealing with a Commitmentphobic Person) and join in on the CP-Anon board. You can be reading this insightful information, written especially for those who are in love with a commitmentphobic person, in less than two minutes!

FIVE GREAT BREAKUP RESOURCES FROM BREAKUP-GIRL & LIFTED HEARTS!

1. BreakupMagazine.com - Get a FREE issue today! Awesome and exclusive articles on breakups, and breaking up, that are not found anywhere else on the internet!

2. BECAUSE NOT EVERY MAN IS THE SAME, THE PLAN FOR WINNING THEM BACK SHOULDN'T BE THE SAME, EITHER! That's why we now have THE ZODIAC MAN! This is a great source of advice for winning the heart of, or winning back the heart of, any man of the Zodiac. 

3. MyBreakupSpace.com - Do you like MYSPACE? We now offer you MY 'breakup' SPACE! It's a brand new site for our visitors here. Go on over there & check it out! It's FREE for all of you!

4. My Big Breakup - A satirical look at break ups and at the opposite sex. Featuring "And the Frog Shit on the Princess" and "Exes are from Uranus". Take a comical look at the lighter-side of breaking up, and learn how to get over a break up at the same time! Hailed as brilliantly funny and 'dead on right' in most cases!

4. MyBreakupBlog.com - Get your own break up blog! Communicate and journal your breakup through our FREE blog! Read others entries. Enjoy!

5. Join Our Lifted Hearts Community: Our very own Lifted Hearts Community on the web (for everyone)! Read all of our webBooks for free, plus our booklets and dozens of poems, too. Learn how to stop your breakup, or mend your broken heart. Learn how to get the commitment phobe (commitmentphobe) to make a commitment - to you! Learn how to make a man fall in with love you, or find out why a woman dumps a man. Read about commitment phobia (commitmentphobia) and your attachment to the CP. Find out the real reason why women cheat. Join in on our private message boards. This community will become your awesome new home on the web - where you can make great friends for life!

6. Broken Hearts and Breakups

Getting To Commitment Mr. Steven Carter's great insights into relationship dynamics are presented here in an easy-to-understand language, and without overdoing the psychological perspectives. Many commitment questions are answered here in this book. A must read for anyone afflicted with commitment issues or involved with someone who is.

He's Scared, She's Scared Available for the first time in paperback, this follow-up to the phenomenally successful Men Who Can't Love tackles the issue of commitmentphobia, that persistent obstacle to truly satisfying contemporary relationships. Authors Stephen Carter and Julia Sokol explore why modern men and women are torn between the desire for intimacy and the equally intense need for independence. Drawing on numerous interviews and real-life scenarios, and written with humor, insight, and the kind of wisdom gained by personal experience, He's Scared, She's Scared offes guidance for all of us who want genuine, sustained intimacy with our romantic partners.

Men Who Can't Love This book saved me from going crazy and from wasting any more of my precious time with a man who is a consumate commitmentphobic. I got this book after a therapist friend of mine said that all my complaining and moaning about my commitmentphobic boyfriend sounded just like the people in this book she'd read - "Men Who Can't Love". I got on line and nabbed a copy. What a life saver! My jaw dropped as I read this book because it describes the behaviors of commitmentphobics precisely as I have been experiencing my boyfriend's behavior. It's so true that the more I pressed him for answers while trying to understand his avoidant behaviors, the more he withdrew from me. "I don't wanna talk about it" is his mantra. All his behaviors were laid out like his biography in this book. It was shocking and revealing at the same time.

I Hate You, Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality This is a great book for an inside look at Borderline Personality Disorder. If you have a person with BPD in life this book is a must have. If you have BPD it will help you understand that some of your behaviors that seem unusual to other are understandable and can be explained and treated.

Please Visit Our Sponsors

The Breakup Guru
============

Borderland Blues Gay & Lesbian Advice
============

Breakup Poems   |   Breakup Songs   |   Break Up Quotes   |   Commitmentphobia

The Rich Bitch Forum - for successful women webpreneurs   |   Free Debt Consolidation Counseling   |   Win Back Your Ex

Have a relationship question? STOP using general search engines and start
using the Relationship Directory to find the relationship answers you're looking for!