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The Girls' Guide to Surviving a Break-Up The essential female companion from the first moment he walks out of your life! The Girls' Guide to Surviving a Break-Up offers step-by-step advice for getting over him.

The Hell with Love: Poems to Mend a Broken Heart Finally a book of poetry that describes every emotion you go through when you are in love and heart broken. This book is amazing and wonderful. I recommend it to who ever loves poetry and ever had a broken heart.

He's Just Not That Into You (The Newly Expanded Edition): The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys It seems like everywhere you turn the phrase "He's just not that into you" is being thrown around. And for good reason! The ladies are finally done waiting by the phone - hey, why sit at home for the phone to ring when it's so obvious that he's just not that into you?

Women Men Love, Women Men Leave: What Makes Men Want to Commit? In easy psychological terms, this book helps a woman understand why a man may react negatively to her even when she feels she's doing everything right for a relationship. With different female personalities portrayed, the reader will find themselves fitting one or more of the profiles.

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The Ultimate Revenge!!!
by Tigress Luv, The Break Up Guru

Ewwwww!!! You're just so angry! SO MAD THAT YOU COULD.....

As much as you want to clean the underside of the toilet bowl with his toothbrush, sprinkle pepper on the electric burners on her stove, or cut the crotch out of every one of his pairs of jeans... is not the greatest revenge in just walking away with your head held high, your dignity intact, and showing very little concern for anything regarding your ex? Is not there a better revenge in building a better life, in soaring and excelling in who you are, in racing ahead and leaving them to cough in your dust?

A little apathy on your part will make your ex feel like the relationship meant very little to you, and isn't that the best possible revenge?  (The opposite of love isn't hate. It's apathy. APATHY is the BEST revenge! It will drive the ex more nuts than hate. Hate is at least an emotion and requires effort and energy on your part. If you can get to where you truly don't care about your ex, that's the opposite of love, and they won't like it one bit!)

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So the greatest revenge act you can do right now is to show little apathy for them. And what better first-aid on your part to help your heart mend. We all have strength, and courage, and compassion, and will, and dignity, and reasoning, and stamina, and determination. Sometimes we learn to become codependent and lean on others for these qualities, instead of developing our own, but believe me---nobody has a monopoly on strength, or self-will. Nobody has been more embellished with one virtue than the next. Nobody is stronger than you! EVERYTHING you need to create a lifetime of happiness is already inside you, you just need to trust that you are just as God intended, no better nor worse, no weaker nor stronger-- than the rest of mankind! Find your strength to move on...there are so many beautiful things waiting for you.

I truly wish I could take your pain away. Because, since I have been there, I know that the pain doesn't last forever and therefore I know I could withstand it. But right now, you can't ever see it getting better. You just feel so hollow and empty and ANGRY inside. I know that feeling! Right now you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel. You have only visions of you two together. You probably think about him or her every waking second and he or she probably sneaks into your dreams, too. You might dream you two are together again and they are telling you they want to get back with you, or you may even dream that they are with another partner (and, usually the new partner is 'picture perfect', oh argh!)...either way you probably jump-start yourself awake with the most horrible of empty feelings. Honey, trust me when I say...IT DOES GET BETTER. Learn to embrace yourself, give yourself the biggest hug. God made our arms long enough so that we can hug ourselves...try it, you'll see that you can do it. If I were there I would support you every inch of the way, but please know I am with you in my heart, but that God is with you always.

So What's YOUR Best Revenge? APATHY!

Tigress Luv, The Breakup Guru

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4. My Big Breakup - A satirical look at break ups and at the opposite sex. Featuring "And the Frog Shit on the Princess" and "Exes are from Uranus". Take a comical look at the lighter-side of breaking up, and learn how to get over a break up at the same time! Hailed as brilliantly funny and 'dead on right' in most cases!

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5. Join Our Lifted Hearts Community: Our very own Lifted Hearts Community on the web (for everyone)! Read all of our webBooks for free, plus our booklets and dozens of poems, too. Learn how to stop your breakup, or mend your broken heart. Learn how to get the commitment phobe (commitmentphobe) to make a commitment - to you! Learn how to make a man fall in with love you, or find out why a woman dumps a man. Read about commitment phobia (commitmentphobia) and your attachment to the CP. Find out the real reason why women cheat. Join in on our private message boards. This community will become your awesome new home on the web - where you can make great friends for life!

Getting To Commitment Mr. Steven Carter's great insights into relationship dynamics are presented here in an easy-to-understand language, and without overdoing the psychological perspectives. Many commitment questions are answered here in this book. A must read for anyone afflicted with commitment issues or involved with someone who is.

He's Scared, She's Scared Available for the first time in paperback, this follow-up to the phenomenally successful Men Who Can't Love tackles the issue of commitmentphobia, that persistent obstacle to truly satisfying contemporary relationships. Authors Stephen Carter and Julia Sokol explore why modern men and women are torn between the desire for intimacy and the equally intense need for independence. Drawing on numerous interviews and real-life scenarios, and written with humor, insight, and the kind of wisdom gained by personal experience, He's Scared, She's Scared offes guidance for all of us who want genuine, sustained intimacy with our romantic partners.

Men Who Can't Love This book saved me from going crazy and from wasting any more of my precious time with a man who is a consumate commitmentphobic. I got this book after a therapist friend of mine said that all my complaining and moaning about my commitmentphobic boyfriend sounded just like the people in this book she'd read - "Men Who Can't Love". I got on line and nabbed a copy. What a life saver! My jaw dropped as I read this book because it describes the behaviors of commitmentphobics precisely as I have been experiencing my boyfriend's behavior. It's so true that the more I pressed him for answers while trying to understand his avoidant behaviors, the more he withdrew from me. "I don't wanna talk about it" is his mantra. All his behaviors were laid out like his biography in this book. It was shocking and revealing at the same time.

I Hate You, Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality This is a great book for an inside look at Borderline Personality Disorder. If you have a person with BPD in life this book is a must have. If you have BPD it will help you understand that some of your behaviors that seem unusual to other are understandable and can be explained and treated.

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