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Here Comes the Sun (Signs) - Romance, Astrology
and You
By: Heidi Richards (© 2005 - Heidi Richards is an Author,
Professional Speaker, and Business Mentor. She is the owner of Eden Florist
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Is
it easy for you to get close to someone or do you take your time in developing
meaningful relationships? What does your partner bring to your relationship
that either helps it blossom or keeps it from going anywhere? Are you finding
love elusive or does it come easy? How do you relate to those you are
romantically attracted to? What kind of relationship are you looking for?
What kind of partner are you seeking? While reading about your sun sign is
not the entire answer to the age-old challenge of finding the right partner,
it can be a start. Your sun-sign is only one aspect of your persona, what
makes you, you. Your Rising and Moon also determine the life you were born
to lead. Romance, Astrology and You will shed some light on sun signs and
romance. Beyond that, you may wish to you seek professionals who can prepare
your chart and give you a more in-depth personality/life reading.
The signs are divided into the four elements
which represent them. They are the elements of Fire, Earth, Air and Water.
This first page covers the Fire signs - Aries, Leo and Sagittarius. The Earth
signs - Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn are on the next page, Air signs - Gemini,
Libra and Aquarius, the next and the last page is dedicated to the Water
signs – Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces.
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Fire Signs
Fire signs represent enthusiasm and energy.
The hallmark of fire is inspiration. With a joy for life, they can be ardent,
forceful and have a tendency to be extremely impulsive.
ARIES - (March 22 - April 20). Aries is ruled
by Mars, and its symbol is the Ram. Aries is a Fire sign, impulsive and
energetic. You are bold and impatient, easily infatuated, and often lose
interest if boredom sets in. You tend toward impulsive rather than cautious
when it comes to matters of the heart, making your interest known (sometimes
too quickly), and you tend to be very direct – shy is not a word to
describe the impetuous Aries. You quickly bounce back from rejection, although
it isn’t something you are use to, as you like to get your way. Quips
and quarrels are often seen as foreplay with the direct Aries. You like the
conquest in romance and can play "hard-to-get". You find it stimulating when
the object of your affection plays the same game. However, in the long run
you love to let yourself be caught, to be "swept away" with desire. You gravitate
toward the confident, rather than those who appear needier. Aries loves to
be caressed and told that you are the best.
LEO - (July 23 – August 22) Leo is ruled
by the Sun and its symbol is the lion. As a Fire sign, Leo’s world revolves
around the principles of identity and drama. You love to be the center of
your partner’s adoration and attention. You tend to be flamboyant and
melodramatic when it comes to matters of the heart. You crave attention and
find ways to announce that you have arrived, whether it be with a look, the
way you “waltz” into a room, the way you toss your head or even
the way you walk up to someone and give them a gentle touch. You are a true
romantic and have been known to write a poem or two. You have style, are
generous and love to “surprise” the object of your affection with
flowers and candy. In fact, surprises are second nature to you. You often
sport an aristocratic air, even if you weren’t born into nobility. You
love to be adored and admired and taking the lead in romance gives you a
sense of power. You expect to be respected, and will act worthy of respect
with one you desire. You know how to turn on the charm and raise the heat
in a relationship. Leos love to be touched and admired.
SAGITTARIUS - (November 22 – December 21)
Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter and is symbolized by the archer. This Fire
sign is connected with the identity. You crave variety, new ideas, and new
experiences. In fact, you can be a little "excessive," which means you can
over-do things a bit - or a lot. You love to explore new places, people and
foods. Change is something you simply cannot live without. Routine is not
a word that sits well with you and anyone romantically interested in the
archer better be ready for adventure. You are a truth seeker, love to learn
and your interests are eclectic and varied. You tend to embellish things
a bit (almost to the point of exaggeration) especially when it comes someone
who might be attracted to you. You want them to find you as interesting as
you find life itself. You love your "space" and freedom and want your partner
to feel the same. You find independence in others as sexy as it is second
nature to you. Playful dates are a real turn-on for someone seeking a good-time.
When it comes to love-interests, you want to be "friends first". Honesty
is paramount to you and you expect it from those in your life, especially
your mate. You can be philosophical one moment and class clown the next.
You are very jovial and will seek a partner who makes you laugh. When it
comes to spirituality, you consider yourself a guide along the long and winding
road to self-discovery. And when in the learning mode, the Sagittarius will
be a "seeker" or student to those who can teach or inspire you. Sagittarians
are as turned-on by a stimulating conversation as they are by sensual
exploration.
Earth Signs
In this last part of the
article I talked about how astrology can determine how you act and react
in romantic situations. We also covered the fire signs. Earth signs are physical
and have to do with primarily material affairs. They are natural and their
feet tend to be firmly planted on the ground, "earthy" types. The hallmark
of earth signs is practicality.
TAURUS - (April 21 – May 21) Taurus is
ruled by Venus and its symbol is the bull. Taurus is an Earth sign which
is connected with fruitfulness and stability. You love luxury and sensual
comforts such as silky satin sheets, robes fit for a king or queen and beautiful
surroundings. You seek comfort, security and beauty. A perfect romance to
you is one that is harmonious and beautiful, even if a bit materialistic.
Because of your fondness for pretty things, you will proudly display your
possessions and purchasing power. You are easygoing, calm, and comfortable
to be around. You enjoy sharing "quiet times" with your love interest and
also get excited about everyday activities such as shopping and cooking and
dining. You tend to be stubborn and will do whatever you can to get what
you want. When it comes to showering affection on the object of your desire,
you enjoy physical contact. You have a very sensual nature and appreciate
the pleasures of food, art, music, perfumes, fondling, or sex. Because you
appreciate nature; a walk in the woods, hiking and rock-climbing may be
considered exciting dates. You also love sunsets camping, gardening and simply
being outdoors and can be attracted to those who are equally down-to-earth
and outdoorsy. As long as your partner or mate displays the qualities of
loyalty and honesty qualities which you likely possess, they will have your
undying loyalty and a relationship destined to endure.
VIRGO - (August 23 - September 22) Virgo is
ruled by Mercury and is symbolized by the Virgin. As an Earth sign, Virgo
is connected with material things and practicality. The ultimate organizer,
you gravitate toward anything that puts your analytical mind to use. To the
outside world you may appear reserved and tend to hold back your emotions,
when it comes to love, it’s no holds barred for the loving Virgo. You
display great attention to detail which can be considered good fortune or
a curse when it comes to relationships. You are good at remembering your
partner’s desires (even those that were only mentioned in passing) and
love to cater to those desires. To you, organizing the object of your affections
is considered “flirting.” Your favorite role is to be of help and
service to friends and partners. You are witty, perceptive and logical. Your
reasoning powers help you to resolve conflicts easily and quickly taking
your romance to new depths. You need a partner who will help you loosen your
cautious shy nature. You are a good listener and communicator, an important
aspect in romance. You love to “fuss” over your partner and can
sometimes be seen as critical. Your partner should know though, that if you
were not interested, you would not work so hard to help your love interest
be “all he or she can be.” Good health is of great concern to you
and you work hard to take care of yourself. You aim to please and when it
comes to love you fall hard. Virgos are most attracted to those who keep
themselves physically fit.
CAPRICORN – (December 22 - January 20)
Capricorn is ruled by Saturn and is symbolized by the sea goat. As an Earth
sign, Capricorn is motivated, determined and sets practical goals. Taking
unnecessary risks is not your “thing,” even in the area of romance.
You are ambitious and responsible. You will, however do “whatever it
takes” to get what you want. Social status, reputation, position, and
career are important to you. You use these to impress and attract the object
of your desires. When it comes to love, no silly games for you, you prefer
a more mature approach to courtship. Glamour and dazzle are more your style
– so an evening that starts out in a limousine would be perfect. You
are supportive and dependable, good qualities in any relationship. Security,
a good home, and the finer things in life are what you strive for. You do
not shy away from commitment, as long as it is with the right person –
in fact you "play for keeps" and will be forever faithful. Some might consider
you a loner, but do not be fooled by the aloof Capricorn. You are longing
for a deep, meaningful relationship with just the right partner. Capricorns
can be as powerful in the bedroom as they are in the boardroom, so lovers
beware. You are seen by your peers as a “winner” and often attract
the same. When it comes to romantic adventures, you are both practical and
romantic so a perfect getaway for you could include both work and play.
Water Signs
Water signs are reflective, responsive and whose
nature is toward abundance, sometimes excess. Their hallmark is their emotional,
expressive nature.
Cancer – Caring - (June 22 – July
22) Cancer is ruled by the Moon and its symbol is the crab. It is a Water
sign, and as such is connected to the world of emotion and the instincts.
People react in a positive way to your sensitive intuitive nature. If it’s
a love interest you are after, you instinctively know how to get the attention
you desire. Because you are a good friend and confidante, people have a tendency
to confess their sins to you. When it comes to flirting you prefer a more
demure or reserved approach to one that is overt. You are a caring, nurturing
lover and enjoy cuddling and hand-holding. You may seduce the object of your
desire with a home-cooked meal of fare that is fit for a king or queen. You
tend to fuss over the object of your affections, a clear indication that
you are interested in pursuing the relationship further. Pampering and affection
are your signatures in romance. You are also very protective of your love
interests (all relationships for that matter) and will go to the ends of
the earth to make those in your life feel safe and secure. Family is important
to you and you enjoy sharing family traditions as well as starting those
of your own creation. For you, home is where the heart is. A Cancerean in
full courtship mode will invite their love interest to meet the family. You
make those you love feel like the center of the universe.
Scorpio - (October 24 – November 21) Scorpio
is ruled by the planet Mars and is symbolized by the scorpion. As a Water
sign it is connected with the world of emotions. You can be intently focused,
even absorbed on the object of your desire. You are send by others as sultry,
emotional and even a "dangerous". Your passionate nature can smolder for
days, weeks and even months and then it all of the sudden erupts into a volcanic
fire that is almost impossible to contain. You have a sexy animal magnetism"
that can subtly seduces the object of your desires. There is a mesmerizing
way about you; when you look into the eyes of your love it is as though you
are looking deep into their soul. You are a born detective and will go to
almost any lengths to find out about someone to whom you have an interest
in. You are intense and emotionally perceptive. When hurt, you don’t
mend easily and don’t forgive quickly (if ever). You know how to channel
your energy and power into exploring your lover’s sexuality. You are
intuitive and inquisitive; there are no secrets you won’t discover.
However, your nature is such that you may keep a few secrets of your own.
Ever resourceful and self-confident, you know what’s best for you and
think you know what’s best for others. Sex with a Scorpio is anything
but subtle, it is full of energy, daring and can even involve some risk taking.
You are looking for a fearless lover, one willing to create a romance that
will unleash your passions.
Pisces - (February 22 – March 21) Pisces
is ruled by the planet Neptune , and its symbol is two fish bound together.
Pisces is a water sign, emotional and compassionate. You have an air of mystery
and love a good secret. You love affairs of the heart and could become involved
in a love tryst or steamy affair. You can be shy or coy, and your sensitive
side and air of vulnerability can and will often work to your advantage to
attract the object of your desires. You love romance and fantasy and sometimes
have a hard time separating the two. You are able to share your deepest feelings
with the one you love and often connect on a soul level. It is said the eyes
are the window to the soul and you often find yourself flirting with your
eyes. Pisces men are often seen as gallant (opening doors, and offering a
hand) and both sexes can be self-sacrificing often putting the needs of their
lover ahead of their own. You tend to daydream and often have your head in
the clouds. You would rather go with the flow than ruffle feathers. You love
to serve your lover and shower him or her with delightful fantasies. You
have a spiritual nature, and are very creative. When it comes to romance,
you can be unpredictable and truly enjoy the game of love, although you will
pursue the object of your affection with slow, careful intent.
Air Signs
Air signs have a great deal to do with relationships
and intellect and are gatherer knowledge using their intuition and the head.
They are known for getting what they desire and achieving their goals. Their
hallmark is making a difference in the world, whether it be in their own
circle of influence or something much larger.
Gemini - (May 22 – June 21) Gemini is ruled
by the planet Mercury and is symbolized by the Twins. An Air sign, Gemini
is connected with communication. You have a way with words. You're good at
flirting and teasing, and can be a real sweet talker. Because of your
“twins” influence you are clever at adapting your style to suit
the seduction. You can be witty and clever and easily are attracted to good
conversationalists. You love the power of suggestion and using double entendres.
In fact, you use them proficiently when you are flirting with others, whether
they be romantic interests or just passing fancies. You adapt easily to most
situations and love to share stores of people, places and experiences, which
you skillfully use to arouse the interest of one you desire. Because you
are so tuned into communicating, you can see both sides of a situation. You
know there are always at least three sides to every conflict. The sides of
each party involved and the truth; which you have a knack for discovering.
You can be a prolific writer. Love letters, poetry and notes are easily used
to seduce the object of your affection. And mind games are beyond your realm
of romantic antics. Internet chat rooms and forums stir your interest. Who
knows, you may even find your future mate online. You have been known to
give “good phone,” and enjoy long conversations that revolve around
romance and sexual innuendos. Flirting is second nature to you and you are
almost shameless when it comes to practicing your flirting style. Because
of their sometimes short attention span, Gemini lovers are more likely stay
around if they feel mentally stimulated.
Libra - Romantic. (September 23 – October
23) Libra is ruled by Venus. An Air sign, Libra is connected with social
relationships and its symbol are the scales. Known as a diplomat to those
closest to you, you have an incredible sense of objectivity and seek harmony
and balance in relationships and life. Happiest when you are in love, you
can be sweet and sensitive. You love talking about things relating to love
and romance such as novels, movies or songs. It is your way of flirting with
the object of your desires. You are a charming, gracious and considerate
lover and can adapt your style to attract the one you desire. In fact, you
like to be partners in most aspects of life and will find ways of including
those you love and admire in your plans, whether it be at work, home or play.
Although crowds of people don’t seem to bother you, you prefer spending
time with your love interest alone rather than in a group setting. You may
start out at a big gala affair, but will look for an appropriate time to
get away so the two of you can spend time alone together. You are a thoughtful
partner and lover and give your full attention to your mate. Giving your
undivided attention is your way of flirting. You have a keen interest in
others and can lend an ear or a shoulder to cry on. You love courting and
or being courted by the object of your affection. Hearts and flowers go a
long way in the romance arena of your life. Librans do not like to be
manipulated, fair play is an absolute must.
Aquarius - (January 21 – February 21) Aquarius
is ruled by Uranus. An Air sign, Aquarius is very social, and is symbolized
by the water bearer. An inventor at heart, you can be seen by others as a
little “quirky,” often gravitating toward the future and progress
of humankind. You are considered a visionary and open-minded looking for
less conventional ways of being and doing than the other signs. You don’t
generally break down under peer pressure; you prefer to be different from
others. You are highly liked and surrounded by friends because you know how
to be one. A humanitarian, you long for social reform and prefer those who
share your thoughts on life over those who easily conform to societal pressures.
You tend to be more attracted to the outrageous than one who looks and act
like everyone else. You are sometimes thought of as a “rebel with a
cause” and will be attracted to a partner who you shares your desire
to change the world. You are a free spirit who needs his or her own space,
but don’t mind sharing that space with the object of your affection,
as long as you don’t get pushed into a corner. You enjoy sharing your
vision of the future with the one you desire and consider it your way of
flirting. Sometimes you appear aloof or unemotional, which can be a turn-off
for some. Not to worry, the right person will find it attractive and be curious
to know what lies beneath that detached exterior. It seems an odd way to
"flirt", but it can be attractive to those who are curious and have a similar
demeanor. It is the game of “intrigue” that can often turn someone
on and make them want to know more. The Aquarius is a creative and imaginative
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